30 Things I’ve Learnt in 30 Years

In truth I’m actually closer to my 31st year now than 30, but last year due to being majorly unwell and skipping over the whole big celebration I thought I’d take some time to reflect on what I had learnt in my long 30 years being alive. As in true Abi style some of this may change your life, some of it may just sound like total shit.

  1. Going to bed early is actually amazing
  2. Drink water a lot of it!
  3. Trust your own judgement and decisions
  4. If people don’t like you for who you are that is just tough shit
  5. Don’t change yourself for anyone
  6. Wear what you want
  7. Save money you never know when you might need it
  8. You are never a true expert on anything you can always learn more
  9. If you don’t want to do something say no
  10. No one is actually thinking about you so stop worrying about it
  11. Nothing good ever happens after 1am
  12. Feeling fresh is always better than a hangover
  13. Exercise is good for you
  14. Listen to your gut
  15. Be kind to the ones who matter and don’t be cruel to the ones who don’t
  16. Ask for help when you need it
  17. Buying more shit doesn’t matter you happier
  18. I definitely do not want children
  19. Money and things only matter to pay your bills and keep you comfortable
  20. Doing something you love to be happy is better than doing something you hate to be rich
  21. Look after you skin and have a good skincare routine
  22. Do not use box hair dyes leave it up to the professionals
  23. Be honest about how you feel in a diplomatic way rather than bottling it up inside
  24. Never apologise for being who you are even if not everyone likes you for it
  25. Don’t stress about the little things
  26. You are responsible for your own life and have to take full ownership of everything in it
  27. Never let anyone make you feel like you are not good enough
  28. A positive mindset will get you miles further than a negative one
  29. I feel exactly the same as I did when I was a teenager and do not feel anymore mature or grown up
  30. You can have whatever you want in moderation

Thanks for reading!

A x

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